Long distance online dating
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The beauty of online dating is that you’re no longer constrained by your immediate social circle or geography when it comes to finding love.
This is a fantasy world and often leads to unnecessary pain for those involved.I can’t count how many times I have stumbled across a profile for a guy who looks truly fantastic, only to discover upon closer inspection that he lives 200 miles away in Seattle or Portland – the closest large American cities to my medium sized hometown. My girlfriends have all had similar experiences, to the point where we’ve coined the phrase, “all the good guys aren’t taken, they just live in Seattle!” Swap Seattle for any other major urban hub and you have the same “the grass is always greener” predicament that many singles find themselves in.Enjoy the process and being with one who is enjoyable to you. I know that this is not easy process to do, but I join God in wanting the very best for you – and the road of less pain and disappointment.May God guide you and speak to you as you journey through your days of building relationships. Although I am sure not all-inclusive, here are some thoughts that I believe one should consider as they entertain long distance relationships. Do long distance relationships grow into beautiful stories of love and happy ever after? I just encourage you to not ‘assume’ that because someone is responding to you and likes many of the same things you do (or so it appears) that they are the ‘soulmate’ for you. God’s Spirit is the best guide through this process.
Each of you should be genuinely seeking Him – separately and together. Allow me to provide some further counsel from my experience and in relating to many Christian singles.
Vacation Mode One of the first things we learned is that our trips to see each other can often feel a lot like vacation.
It didn’t hurt that I live in Colorado Springs and she lives in San Diego, two great places to enjoy a getaway!
My fiancée and I met at a singles conference and have spent most of our relationship doing long-distance.
Here are the five potholes we’ve learned to avoid on our road to marriage.1.
What advice would you have about dating online and long distance relationships?