Internet dating is a waste of time

11-May-2019 10:15 by 9 Comments

Internet dating is a waste of time

Guys were full-on spamming my inbox with multiple messages before I could reply to even one asking why I wasn’t responding and what was wrong.Guys would become hostile when I told them I wasn’t interested in NSA sex, or guys that had started normal and nice quickly turned the conversation into something explicitly sexual in nature.

Men scramble to approach women like rats chewing on a meaty chicken bone, and then wonder why women are so turned off by them.Remember that we are the largest free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate. I do fairly well for a guy I may get 1 or 2 messaged a day but I have male friends who have never received a single message.So I have spoken to a few girls that have told me that their inbox is flooded with messages on POF. So if there are in fact twice as many men on here than women it seems women can have their pick..action_button.action_button:active.action_button:hover.action_button:focus,.action_button:hover.action_button:focus .count,.action_button:hover .count.action_button:focus .count:before,.action_button:hover .count:bullet. Error Banner.fade_out.modal_overlay.modal_overlay .modal_wrapper.modal_overlay [email protected](max-width:630px)@media(max-width:630px).modal_overlay .modal_fixed_close.modal_overlay .modal_fixed_close:before.modal_overlay .modal_fixed_close:before.modal_overlay .modal_fixed_close:before.modal_overlay .modal_fixed_close:hover:before. My point is that a large to huge percentage of the messages most women get on here are likely not of interest, and she's not acting on them.

The sheer volume is not a reflection of much of anything that matters *ultimately*. As in I'll send out 50 "hi babe" emails to fifty girls and hope for the best.

That means that you would have to get cold-shouldered 25 times in real life to have the same rate of failure that you can expect in the online world.

Conclusion: online dating is a massive waste of time for anyone who isn't already successful with women.

This chart shows there is less than a 10 percent chance of an American woman even responding to a man on an online dating site and I've seen anecdotal reports of the response rate being under one percent for some men.

Average response rate from women of the same age is about 4 percent.

Seemingly nice dudes in quite esteemed careers asking to hook up in 24 hours and sending them naked pics of myself despite multiple times telling them that I didn’t want to.” As a male coach for smart, strong, successful women, I apologize on behalf of all men. But they really don’t get what it’s like to walk a mile in your shoes.