Once the ESTJ decides to commit, they will try very hard to make the relationship work.
Thus ESTJs make dependable and clear-headed partners who are an asset to those near and dear to them.However everyone will know where they stand and they will use their vast store of knowledge and experience to plan and deliver.There is no perfect type and in the same way there are no perfect matches.We can all learn to adapt and modify our behaviour if we choose and this section is therefore not designed to suggest particular specific matches but to demonstrate areas of similarity and difference so that a true understanding can happen and thus reduce the risk of misunderstandings.The ENFJ is empathetic and insightful, seeing and making connections between people.So if you are eager to make things work between you and your ESTJ date, here are a few tips to help you on the way.
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Respect their values Like other personality types which are made up of the Thinking and Judging traits, ESTJs put great store by a value system based on order, duty and very often, hierarchy.
So much has been written about whether opposites attract or difference is the key but in real life it is all about understanding the differences, accommodating and managing them.
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Outspoken and organised the ESTJ will take charge, bringing order, structure and focus to situations.