Dating advice for single christian women
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You may have had an interest in getting to know them better, but their fear of being vulnerable precludes any possibility of a meaningful relationship.This kind of fear keeps a single person from connecting emotionally and spiritually with others.
So the tone may be a bit direct not because I am brash but because I am writing to Women not girls and one thing I know about women is that contrary to the opinion that they want you to beat around the bush, when it comes to things that are really important, they want you to tell them like it is.Think through the Bible…all the great men that had relationships with God and who he used and blessed…usually didn’t have a clue about where they were going and (here is the even crazier part) even if they had a clue, their lives for a long time did not reflect that great place God said he was taking them. All the way from Abraham …going to a land he did not know; Joseph having a dream that people would bow down to him but became a slave and then a prisoner; David who was anointed to be King and then lived the next 15 years in the wilderness as a fugitive; Peter the great fisher of men who was barely able to catch fish.These men would have had a rough time finding a wife today. Abraham calling sister Sarah aside after church and saying “Errrmmm Sarah you know I love you right? “Look baby…I really care about you and want to spend the rest of my life taking care of you…Just as she was getting old enough to start dating, however, she noticed something.Some of the popular Christian books were talking about not dating at all, and just being friends, until God had made it clear that the guy she liked was the right one for her.A survey of several hundred singles revealed the following: Fear of Rejection Some single women and men are scared of reaching out to singles of the opposite sex for fear of being rejected by them.
Most singles who have this kind of fear and trepidation are gentle and sweet people.I’ve gotten a lot of one-on-one questions about this from BOTH MEN AND WOMEN and I figured it was time to write about it. As a daughter of God, he is working out your story beautifully, so bask in that.Before I write another line though, it’s important that I say a few things and get some things out of the way. This article is mainly for mature Christian single women. This is however, for Christian ladies who are ready for marriage but frustrated that they can’t find the right guy even though there seems to be options. I write this respectfully but I will write it as honestly as possible as a man and as someone who knows a thing or two about relationships.There are many fears that keep women and men single.Paradoxically, many single women and men who yearn to get married often allow fears and phobias to keep them from that very goal.I once waited months on this guy out of pride and insecurity. Now, this time last year, it seemed like marriage and a relationship was the only thing on my mind.